Tuesday, December 21, 2010

IT'S OFFICIAL!!!


Today we had the awesome opportunity to go to family court and finalize Shaylee's adoption. We were the first into the court room this morning. The proceedings in all took about 5 minutes. The court bailiff presented Shaylee with a teddy bear and we took pictures with Judge Harter and our attorney Todd Moody. As of today, Shaylee Ann Hone is legally ours.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

We Wish You a Merry Christmas!

This year began with a rough start when Karter had to have surgery to remove his tonsils and adenoids. But it was worth it. Karter has grown tremendously physically and socially. His speech is no longer a challenge.

May was the highlight of our year. Our beautiful Shaylee was born on May 19th. We were privileged to get to meet her just a few hours after her birth. Adoption has been an amazing journey!

Our Sage took up hip hop & jazz. Kaleb is still our creative genius. They are doing fantastically at their new school. The Montessori model really seems to work for Kaleb and Sage is so social she fits in anywhere.

Kalvan is still hard at work on his MBA. Next December we look forward to his graduation. As for me, I’m a mom. I run as fast as I can and try to snap a few photos along the way. This year has been an adventure and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Sage's Birthday

Oh Sage, what do I say about Sage? There is so much! Sage has been such a joy since birth. My first daughter. The little one with all the boss and fire. It has never ceased to amaze me how Heavenly Father managed to pack such a big personality into such a petite little body. At 9 Sage is still wearing 6x. She is beautiful and joyful. She's fiesty and bold. She's the daughter I always envisioned. Perhaps a little too like me. She has always been a great student and a quick learner. This year she is on to her 4th school since kindergarten and is taking it in stride. She has a wonderful little group of friends. She is also taking dance (pop & jazz). A new thing this year is the need to use the phone. She has a friend or two to call almost every night. She even has long distance friends that she emails regularly. Sage in a word is SOCIAL! I love her with all my might. Happy Birthday Sage!

Drum Roll Please!


Announcing...
Shaylee Ann Hone will be blessed on Sunday, December 26th at 1:00 in the Topaz Chapel. All are invited.
Her sealing will take place on Tuesday, December 28th in the Manti Utah Temple.
We are so thrilled and excited to finally have our adoption finalized so Shaylee can be sealed to our family forever! Thank you to everyone for your prayers and words of encouragement. We love you and hope to see many of you at one or both of the events.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

HAPPY DAY!!!

We finally have our court date for finalization. On December 21st at 9:00am we will have our adoption finalized in Clark County Family Court!!! Shaylee will finally be officially ours. The date of her blessing and sealing are still being determined. We'll post the announcement when we have it planned.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Kaleb's 11th Birthday

OK this one snuck up on me. No matter how long I'm a mother each of Kaleb's birthdays feel so surreal. He just can't be 11 already. In a week and a half we'll be taking him to our wards priesthood preview. Since when did they start giving the priesthood to little boys? In some moments I look at him and he takes my breath away. When and how did he get so dang grown up? Kalvan keeps reminding me it's my fault for feeding him. Which by the way is another shock. This boy puts away almost twice what I can eat. I still remember the days when I couldn't get Kaleb to eat more than a handful of animal crackers and nearly half a gallon of milk on a given day. Yes, I know the milk is what kept him alive. He was such a picky eater. I remember him learning to get past the baby locks and drinking lavender baby bath just days before his first birthday and teaching his cousin Baylee how to swirl her hand in the toilet. Where has my little fella gone? I remember him falling asleep with his head on my chest because he ran so hard he just fell over. I remember all the cuddles and sweet quiet mom and Kaleb moments that I'll cherish forever. Kaleb is still a wonderful and loving child, but he's gotten so big so fast I can hardly believe this is the same boy. I'm so proud of my first born child and the many accomplishments he has had over the years. The day after his birthday Kaleb received his Webelo and Arrow of Light. He is officially a Boy Scout. As always he maintains his straight A average with little effort. His creative abilities are amazing. And I'm proud to report that Kaleb still loves having me around, he'll still give me hugs in public and he'll introduce me to others as his beautiful mother. How did I ever get so lucky? Happy birthday Kaleb!

Well That's Trouble


My sweet 5 1/2 month old Shaylee seems to have always been ahead of the curve, but now it's getting serious. As is normal for a nearly 6 month old she's learned to sit up. It's kind of nice since she's never been patient about laying on her back to play. She doesn't even like to sleep on her back.

Well, as a tummy sleeper she's gotten a LOT of tummy time and is up on all fours and trying to crawl. As the mother of 4 I know what this means. Tell me that isn't trouble just waiting for a place to happen.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Birth Moms Deserve Our Respect

I came across an article today that caught my attention. It's titled Birth Moms Deserve Our Respect. It ran in Newsweek on May 20, 2010. Ironically, one day after our sweet baby girl was born. I am thoroughly grateful to find there are people who share my view of birthmothers. Our birthmother, Shanna, as imperfect as she may be, is my hero. She's one of the very few who was able to place the needs of her daughter above her own and give her up for adoption. Today I am paying tribute to birthmothers who muster courage and strength that few are capable of. They place their babies for adoption.

Did you know that in this county about 50% of all pregnancies are reported "unplanned"? This includes women in every relationship status and circumstance possible from married women to rape victims. Of those pregnancies 46.2% choose abortion, 53.8% choose to go ahead with the birth and raise the baby themselves. Only .0054% of those choose to give their baby up for adoption. Nearly 1 in 4 babies will not make it to birth. It's a staggering statistic that makes me look at my daughter with new eyes, pray a little harder for birthmothers, and thank the Lord for his divine guidance. Shaylee is truly a miracle.

To read the birthmother article click HERE.

For a chart on abortion laws throughout the world click HERE.

Adoption...it's about LOVE. Let's spread the word.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Halloween

We had fun Trunk-or-Treating Thursday night. Last night we carved our pumpkins into jack-o-lanterns. Tonight we are enjoying some family time watching Bedknobs and Broomsticks, eating some yummy, hone-made pumpkin bread, and handing out candy. Very quiet on the range tonight...and liking it!
Halloween 2010

Saturday, October 30, 2010

As you can tell from our new blog picture, we finally got new family pictures. We're so excited to have a picture with all of our kids included. To look at all of them click on the picture below to view the album.
Family Pictures (October 2010)

Laughing Shay

Friday, October 15, 2010

Karter's Birthday!

OK, so I'm over a month late with this post, but here it is. Our little man is 5!!! With the other kids I remember feeling shocked when they finally reached this somewhat grown age. With Karter I don't feel the surprise. Between his speech delay, ear infections, behavior issues, and surgery, I've had more productive 1 on 1 time with him than any of my other children. It's funny how his challenges have turned into one of my most cherished blessings. I know Karter inside and out. I've watched his growth very closely. So, this birthday comes as no surprise.

This past January I had to do something that no mother enjoys. I had to hand over my baby to a doctor for surgery. When he woke up from surgery he cried so hard the nurse came to get us early. Kalvan went back to comfort him as only one of us was allowed. But Karter didn't really calm down and sleep until I arrived. I felt so privileged to be his mom and to know how much he needs me.

Karter is a charmer, a tease, a ball of fire. He's warm and loving. He's sweet and sincere. He's got a quick slap and a mean pinch. He's full of life and personality. And I wouldn't trade him for all the world. Happy Birthday Karterman!

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Fun with Kaleb

This week was a great one! The kids are back to school and so far we haven't had any problems. The kids like their teachers and things are going smoothly. On Wednesday, Karter began his soccer career. His first practice went off without a hitch, for him. Have I ever mentioned that Kaleb is, well, accident proned? The poor boy can be walking along one minute and bleeding the next. There's no telling what could reach out and get him. While Karter was "staying on his feet" at soccer practice Kaleb went to play with a few friends at the playground. About the time the coach was handing out snacks Kaleb came walking over looking a little disoriented with a big goose egg just below his right eye. My first thought was, "what has he done now?" Apparently he was running around the playground as only crazy Kaleb can and ran smack into another kid. His forhead met Kaleb's cheek bone. Lucky for us, one of the other moms at practice is a nurse. So, she checked him out and deemed it unnecessary to take him to the ER, as long as the goose egg didn't exceed 2 inches. We rushed home to put ice on it. The first picture is of Kaleb just an hour after we started applying ice. The goose egg had dimished, but he's still pretty swollen. The second picture is Kaleb today. The swelling is gone, but he's got a bold shiner. Seriously, how dangerous can your 5 year old brother's soccer practice be?

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Back to Bryce Canyon

So while Miki did the sister retreat last weekend in Cedar City again, the older kids and I went back to Bryce Canyon National Park for some camping and hiking. Last year 2/3rds of the park was closed due to a fire, so we had to go back to finish what we started. Shay stayed behind in Cedar with the girls, but maybe next year she will be joining us instead. As always, we had a blast. Here are some of my favorite pictures:

Bryce Canyon 2010

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Three Months



Shaylee is already 3 months old and I can't make time slow. I can't believe our little girl is already so big. In the past month she has learned to smile, gurgle, coo, and eat us out of house and home. Shay smiles easily and is even starting to give us rare little giggles. She's a very easy going baby who brings joy to everyone she interacts with. I've had grandma's offer to hold her while I help my other kids and grandpa's stop to talk. Young and old alike seem to notice her everywhere we go.

I can't begin to express what a joy and blessing it is to have Shaylee in our home. If it's possible to be loved to death, I think this baby is in grave danger. Heavenly Father sent us such a jewel for which I'll be eternally grateful.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Mancos Vacation

Our summer wouldn't be the same without a trip to the outlaws! Kaleb and Sage had Cousins Camp 2010 this year at Grandma's house, so we stayed the following week for a family vacation. Thanks to Miki's parents for putting us up and feeding us so well. We always relish our time with them. For a couple of days, we even had the whole clan together for some family picture opportunities. Those who hadn't were able to meet Shaylee for the first time. We had a blast relaxing, watching movies, playing games, jumping on the trampoline, riding the four-wheelers, horseback riding, working, partying, eating, hiking, and enjoying time together. One afternoon we were able to leave the kids with grandma to ride the four-wheelers up into the forest where Miki and I shared a picnic to celebrate our 14th wedding anniversary. Since our camera broke in Sacramento, we bought a nice Nikon D90 to play around with while we were there and got some stunning photos of the beautiful scenery (more photos to come later). It seemed much greener to us this year. All in all we had a great time we will always remember. As always, feel free to follow along in the photo album.

Mancos Vacation 2010

Friday, August 6, 2010

Sacramento Vacation

We were once again fortunate to travel to Sacramento July 16-23. We planned that week around my 20-year highschool reunion, but I ended up not even attending. I will have to catch up with past friends later. But I did get to catch up with a few friends while there, which was great! Saturday and Sunday we relaxed and visited with family and friends. On Monday, we went to Folsom Lake, but the boat did not cooperate with us that day. We took it home and bought a new part for it. Tuesday, we went to Fairytale Town in the morning, then back to Folsom Lake for some waterskiing. On Wednesday, we went waterskiing at Lake Clementine. This day my friend Brett and fiance Jessica joined us for the fun. On Thursday, Miki and Shay stayed at home for some needed rest while my dad took the other kids and I up to Lake Englebright to meet up with Kelton, Zeba, and Mason for more skiing. Then on Friday, we all returned to Folsom Lake to do some more skiing with my niece Kaity and Rose. On Saturday we had to drive back to Las Vegas, but I for one had not gotten my fill of waterskiing yet. I think the kids feel the same. Karter absolutely loved helping drive the boat. He said he would be ready next year to try kneeboarding. Kaleb and Sage learned to wakeboard this year to add to their kneeboarding skill. They are little pros! I don't know where they get it from!?! We were a little nervous about how Shay would do with all the car travel and being on the boat all week, but she buried all our fears with ease. She is such the little trooper. Waterskiing everyday is definitely my kind of vacation! Nothing else compares to being on the lake! Thanks to my dad and mom for letting us stay with them, feeding us, and taking us skiing everyday. Love you! Check out just a few of the many pictures below to follow along with all the fun.
Sacramento Vacation 2010

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Life with Karter


Have you ever had those moments when you knew you weren’t in the right place to laugh your heart out and yet you couldn’t help yourself? We had one of those experiences today. We were in a very spiritual, heartfelt testimony meeting. The children of the ward were doing such a fantastic job of being reverent. Shay was in my lap content with her pacifier. Kaleb and Sage were sitting at the other end of the bench with Kalvan. In between us Karter was fiddling with his shoe laces. In an instant Karter did a perfect roll right off the bench. He wasn’t hurt, but it only took a second to realize he couldn’t get up. He had gotten both hands stuck in both loops of his right shoe lace. He was lying on his left side looking up at us with a stunned “what the heck?” look on his face. At that moment I would have given anything to have a camera and I would have used it right there in the middle of sacrament meeting. Karter has done some pretty amazing stunts over the years, but I’ve never seen him so totally incapacitated. While trying to stifle a laugh, it took Kalvan at least a full minute to get Karter’s trapped hands out of his shoe laces. Poor Shay was bouncing up and down against my belly as I tried really hard not to laugh out loud. Our whole family was rolling with silent laughter and tears rolling down our cheeks. Life would be so dull without Karter.

Monday, June 21, 2010

1 Glorious Month

I can hardly believe that Shaylee has already been with us for a full month. Today she weighed in at 9 pounds 6 ounces! She is growing so fast and is such a joy to have. My older kids are doing fantastic with her. Sage can already boast that she has stayed up a night with Shaylee. Although, Kalvan says Sage has an unfair advantage, she can sleep right through Shaylee's crying.

We need to send a thank you to all of you who have so lovingly sent us warm wishes and gifts. Baby Shay is so decked out with her personalized pasifiers, bracelet, hair accessories, blankets, toys, diapers, wipes, and a couple dozen adorable outfits.

Also, a special shout out to my friend Corrine who is the baby accessorizing queen. Check her out at CC Baby Inc. Thank you for the box of adorable baby stuff.

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Yeah, We Got Our Kicks...On Route 66!

Life is a highway and the older kids and I decided to ride it all Saturday long.



First, when the Disney/Pixar movie Cars came out, we loved it. In particular, Karter, who was of course very into cars and almost 2 years old when the movie came out, loved it! Even after buying the DVD we had a few different occasions, just by happenstance, to watch the movie again and again at the public library and various parties and such. Karter got Cars everything it seems: a Mater toothbrush, Lightening McQueen toothpaste, Doc Hudson band-aids, Cars bubble bath, a Cars lounge chair for kids, and finally, the Lightening McQueen hotwheel car that has traveled with Karter many places over the last couple of years (now Lightening usually travels along side the Mach 5).
Second, to make matters more interesting, Karter's granddad went out and bought a real Lightening McQueen a couple years ago. That's right, a brand new, bright red, shiny Corvette. When we told Karter what it was, an unbreakable bond was formed that can only be found between Karter, his granddad, the corvette, and the pavement. When granddad brings the vette to visit, it always includes the traditional removing of the hard-top to take Karter for a ride. Karter is all smiles when granddad pins him to his seat with that accelerator several times on their cruise that is all too short.

Third, on the way to/from the Havasu Falls hike last October, I drove this route between Kingman and Peach Springs. 7 miles east of Peach Springs is the turnoff for Hilltop trailhead which leads to Supai village. It was then that I noticed many places that inspired much of the Cars movie fictional setting.
(In case you haven't seen the movie or need a reminder, here's a short video on YouTube that catches the gist of the premise: Cars: the story. And if you are interested in reading more about the similarities between the movie setting and real life people and places, here is a fairly good site, but I think the author missed the mark on some of them. I could go into a dissertation with supporting evidence, but I'll have to save that for another time.)
So, last Saturday, after Miki's mother stayed with us the week to help with the new baby, we were glad to drive her half way home to meet up with granddad. We decided to take the scenic route home on Route 66 and experience a throw-back to the past for ourselves.

We started in downtown Williams, AZ, where we stopped at the grocery store and bought some lunch to take to great granddad Patrick and Jeanie's cabin, where we met granddad to eat lunch with everyone and drop off grandma. We then hopped back onto Route 66 at Seligman and stopped at the Grand Canyon Caverns for a tour. We then made several stops between Peach Springs and Kingman to take photos. This is the longest stretch of original Route 66 in existence today. We had dinner at Mr. D'z diner in Kingman before heading back home. It was a long day, but as usual, we had a good time!

Follow along our road trip with the photo album here:
Route 66

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Shaylee at 2 Weeks


Well our little Shaylee is a hardy girl. At birth she weighed in at 6 lbs. 5 ozs. and 19 inches long. Today she weighed in at 7 lbs. 8 ozs. and 21 inches long. I can hardly believe the growth of our little Shay in just 2 short weeks! I'm a little sad that her newborn wrinkles are gone, but now we're on to adorable healthy rolls. So far she's a very content and happy baby. We feel so blessed to have her.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Photo Shoot

Shaylee Photo Shoot

Our baby girl is settling in nicely and we're thoroughly enjoying her. At day 5 I had a dear friend and mother of one of my recently former preschoolers come and take some pictures of our newest addition. I couldn't help but want to capture her wrinkly newborn skin and sweet little newborn face. Lynette did a fantastic job.

Monday, May 24, 2010

And now...for our final act!

It's official! We've adopted a newborn baby girl into our family! Yep, it's been a long time coming! Three years to be exact. We received a phone call Monday from LDS Family Services that our baby's birth was going to be induced Tuesday night at midnight. Baby was born at 9:53am Wednesday morning, weighing in at 6 lbs. 5 oz. and measuring 19 inches. We met the birth mom and baby at noon and got to know them for a long while. I later picked up the kids to meet their new sister at the hospital that evening. We all instantly fell in love! We are all so excited!!! We spent three of the longest days at the hospital feeding, burping, changing diapers, and just watching her sleep as we kept her company until we could sign the papers and take her home Saturday. It has felt like nine months of emotions crammed into a week for us and we are exhausted in every way and blessed to have a precious little baby girl in our family.

The process felt very long for us, required much patience, plenty of second guessing, and as with every answered prayer, it didn't happen in our time frame. And as a result, the timing couldn't have been more perfect! Everything has gone smoothly and we have no doubts that this beautiful baby girl is meant for our family.

So without further adieu, please say hello to Shaylee Ann Hone:

Sunday, May 23, 2010

2010 May

More fun on the range. We should think about putting the camera out of reach! But...nah, where's the fun in that?!?






2010 April

April was another busy and fun month. It started with a weekend trip to Sacramento for my parents 50th wedding anniversary party over Easter weekend. The entire family made it for the most part. It was sure fun to see everyone and visit and have our kids get reacquainted or meet cousins for the first time. Photo album:

Hone Family 50 Party

After we returned, we had a little Easter celebration and egg hunt of our own:



Cub Scout Day Camp:



Big wheelin:



And, while Miki went for a weekend with the women folk of her family to Women's Conference, the kids and I went camping and exploring at Mojave National Preserve in CA April 30th. We hit the famous "rings" trail at Hole in the Wall visitors center, Mitchell Caverns, Kelso sand dunes, the Kelso visitors center, and a very cool lava tube. It was quite windy and cold the night we camped, but I cannot remember the last time I saw so many stars at night or ate so many S'mores. We had a blast! Be sure to follow along in the photo album:

Mojave National Preserve

Friday, May 21, 2010

2010 March


March included a short hike to a valley overlook.
A visit from Aunt Cassie and Uncle Jason.
A space derby.
The usual horsing around.
And a visit from Grandma & Grandpa, which also included a trip to the Children's Museum and a hike in Valley of Fire.

White Domes and Mouse's Tank Hikes

2010 February

February included a family bike ride on President's Day to one of our favorites: the historic railroad trail.






Kaleb also had a science fair project for school testing a couple of his cool airplane designs to see which designs flew the furthest and the longest.





Other than that, just the usual funtimes around the house.